Kathy's Dining Room

Hi Christine,

First of all, I just discovered your site and I LOVE it- I think I am becoming an addict!  You definitely tell it like it is and give great advice.  I enjoy trying to guess your answers before I read them- and sometimes I even get it right :)

I'm hoping you can help me with my "too big" dining room which used to be our living room (floor plan attached)  We have a big family and can sometimes host up to 46 for holidays so it comes in handy a few times a year- the rest of the time it's just a big space that we rarely use.  Our style is uncluttered with traditional/coastal/cottage. We like texture and contrast and both neutral and saturated colors- but nothing muddy or dark.  We live in the midwest though so need the space to feel warm during our cold overcast winters.  

Here's what it has looked like up until recently...

We just added a screen porch off the fireplace wall and small living room on the other side of the stairs. I am trying to define the room and make it less random looking- cozy but also more sophisticated.  We've added new chair rail and picture frame molding and plan to paint that white.  We're trying to decide about a paint color or punchy wallpaper above the chair rail.  Would love to have a combo library/dining room and have also considered using two round/square tables since we're big card players and host our card group often but we thought this might look strange.

Problem #1 Can't buy a new rug until we decide how to lay out the room.  My husband would love a comfy chair by the fireplace but we can't block the south French door.  Do we have to center the dining room table on the bay? Does a round table just leave me with more space to fill on the other end of the room?   Also, the round kitchen table is visible from the dining room. Our table is rectangular ( 7'6"x3'8" ) and seats 6 with current chairs (8 if we got new narrower upholstered chairs) but we would consider replacing it if another size/shape is better.  A big square table?  How do we fill the west end of the room?  The piano and pine hutch can move to another room if needed.

Problem #2

What to do with the bay?  We've had it previously as a window seat with a cushion but I'm not sure if this works.

Problem #3

Window Treatments?  We have no window coverings on our first floor yet and need an anchor point.  We need to cover the bay windows with something since we feel like we're in a fishbowl , and we need something complementary on the French doors (and then maybe we'll use the room more).   We've had nonfunctional sheer Roman shades and fixed side panels around the bay.  The bay window trim is not deep enough for wood blinds unless we have the trim redone.  We considered plantation shutters at full or half-height throughout the first floor (would require some carpentry work on the window trim also) but don't want to darken the room too much and we're nervous to commit to this without some expert input.

This is what the house looks like more recently:

Problem #4

Light Fixture?  I know I need to replace the dated brass chandelier.  I prefer a round vintage-style chandelier but I think you're going to tell me to use something rectangular.

Problem #5

Last but not least.  The area around the fireplace mantel is painted panelling.  Should we try to change this, ignore this or somehow highlight it?  Accent wall?

Thank you so so much.  I feel that this could be my favorite room in my house with the right decorating so I appreciate any help you can give.

With much appreciation,

Kathy

Hi Kathy,

1.  I have seen the two tables used instead of one before.  I would hesitate to use it in your room.  I think it works well in very large rooms.  The size and shape of your room lends itself more to simpy using a much larger table than you currently have. 

The table above is a full 110 inches in length.  (You could even go larger)  You would add to that about 2-3 feet of length in your area rug.  (On both ends)  You will want an area rug that is approximately 15 feet in length.  That gives you a little over three feet not covered by rug on either end, which is a very comfortable amount. 

2.  Do not try to break this room into two separate areas.  (Sitting and eating)  It will work so much better to use it just as a dining room, with appropriately scaled furniture in it. You can use large wingback style chairs at the ends of the table.  They could easily be moved for a quiet moment by the fireplace, but then returned.  Of course, be careful of seat height.  You don't want to sit too low.  A pillow in the back would also be helpful to turn a non-dining chair into a dining chair.  You also need to be careful with the softness of the cushion.  You want it to be extra firm, so you don't look like that king on Shrek when you sit down.  I would just take it to my workroom and they can make that cushion sit you up perfectly.

3.  Do not use a round; do not use a square.  Do not use any table except a rectangle or oval.  When you fight the shape, it looks awkward.  I had a client once with a perfectly square dining area, and she wanted to use a rectangular table.  No, no, no.  Work with your architecture, not against it. If you don't do that- do not e-mail me back and tell me about your round table.  I will get so frustrated I will want to stop blogging. 

4.  Yes, add a built-in window seat.  It's asking for it.

5.  Your dining room, like most, has so many hard surfaces.  Use soft treatments on your windows.  Layer drapes with Roman shades.  Add a roller shade or similar underneath if you want to keep your sheer Roman shades but add privacy. 

6.  Remember the focal point in a dining room is the center of the table.  This includes your light fixture.  You are exactly right that I would not ever put a single round chandelier over a 110 inch table.  It is not a good idea from a lighting standpoint.  It is not a good idea from a visual design perspective either.  You don't have to use a long fixture, if you don't want to.  You could use a series of three round or square fixtures.   I think three of the lanterns below would be perfect!  Every 36 inches of table surface would have a 20 inch lantern above it.  That would be great.  7.  Remove the curio from the corner.  Remove all other furniture.  Add a longer sideboard.  Get one that is just about as large as you can find. 

The sideboard above is 87 inches in length.  It has a nice large scale feel to it.  Center it between the doorway and the corner. 

8.  Then, above it, you need some larger scale wall decor to be in proportion.   This piece comes in a variety of sizes, or you can order complementary pieces to have a set of nine or twelve.  You can also frame them to adjust the size.  I love it when I really have control over the scale of a project.  You can draw the wall elevation out on graph paper and determine the ideal size of the decor. 

9.  I would add a couple of sconces on the wall space to the right and left of the sideboard.  Not too small.  I would find some pretty big ones...  Like the ones below are 15 x 15.  That size would work well.

 10.  Now for your chairs.  Scale, scale scale.  Don't go small on your chairs.  Stay away from small.  No shopping at IKEA and World Market.  ;-) 

This chair's dimmensions: 

• H: 41
• W: 25
• D: 26 

Compare those dimensions to anything you consider.  (Or just get this one, like I am suggesting, as it is totally awesome!) 

Can you see the room coming together?  I can.  I want to move in. 

11.  Now for your window treatments.  Add a punch of color.  You already are going to get my favorite teal chairs.  (e-mail me- I will order them for you...)  So pull out the teal in your drapes. 

I am really loving this raspberry color lately.  If I love it, it means that is a hot color.  A red that leans pink.  I love to do my own predicting of trends.  Like I did in this post in 2008.   My prediction for today is that reds are going to head pinker.  Raspberry is the new red.  Notice how this fabric also has a little white in it? That touch of white will help the white wood work to blend seamlessly into the room.  Use the raspberry and turquoise blue in your display area by your fireplace. 

12.  You are most likely going to need a custom rug for your room.  (Since most rugs max out at 12 feet in length)  This rug is from Kravet, and availble in custom sizes.  You can also find a lot of sisal rugs in custom sizes as well.  Make sure it looks like a rug though- not a piece  of carpet with binding on it. 

13.  Last but not least- your walls.  I would put a lovely fairly neutral grasscloth on them.  It will be subtle, but add texture and warmth.

There we are.  I especially like this room.  You should really do exactly what I said.  It will look great.  If you need any specifics for purchasing let me know.  Keep all of your built-ins and wood work white.  Finish your room off with a nice large plant with uplight in the corner where the curio is currently, and also add greenery and a table runner to the top of the table.

XOXO

Christine

A Favorite Source... or two

Rebecca left this comment yesterday from this post "The Simple Striped Rug":

Hi, I love this rug! Where is it from? Thanks!

I am not sure where the rug from the movie set came from- and the other photos are from Maine Cottage.  In addition to striped rugs, they are a great source for a style that I would describe as fresh and contemporary cottage.  They carry crisply painted bright cottage style furniture.  The large selection of paint colors make them an especially convenient source.  -I will also give up another favorite source for fantastic striped rugs.

I love Dash and Albert.  They are a rug company with a large selection of fantastic striped rugs- a terrific variety of unexpected color combinations that can act as an inspiring color pallet for a whole room.  The rugs in this post are from Dash and Albert.

Now- this is where- if I were savvy- Maine Cottage and Dash and Albert would be paying me...  ;-)

Two Options for Laura

Hi Christine,

We are slowly getting settled into our house.  As you can tell, our family room is in need of some help.  We want to get an area rug to add some color, but need to be budget friendly.  We kind of like the colors in the pillow that came with the sectional, but are open to ideas.  The windows also need some type of window treatment, too.   Coffee table?  We probably won't get around to painting for a while, so we'll be sticking with the white walls for now.  Thanks for any suggestions you have!   You're the best!  (Let me know if you want better/different pictures).

Laura



Hi Laura,

Your room is so neutral, it is hard to know where to start with colors.  Because of that- I thought I'd show you two totally different options.  The first is the more neutral of the two.

The Chrysanthemum rug is from Martha Stewart's line on homedecorator.com.

The pillow is from DwellStudio- I would get a couple of these as well as some solid blue and brown throw pillows. 

The drapes are from West Elm.  I would get three panels. 

Next- I wanted to show you a more colorful option:

The rug is from homedecorator.com. 

The bird pillow is from DwellStudio.  I would also add some solid color throw pillows to the mix. 

The drapery panels are from Pottery Barn. 

There you go- let's all vote for Laura- which collection would you go with?  They are both very similar in price- The colorful options total $569 and the the neutral items total $537.