Hi Christine!
You helped me a while ago with my family room, and I'm so glad you did. It is still a work in progress, but it looks and feels so much better. We made some of the changes and I am working on fixing the rest. If I've already made a mistake, I'm sure you will let me know. I finally bought some fabric for curtains for the family room and kitchen. It is a burnt orange color that ties in with the rug (much more bold than the temporary drapes I put up). I'm trying to decide if I want to add a border to the top or bottom of the floor length curtains in a light color. I looked through several of your postings and can't find any curtains that have that, so is that not a good idea? Should I just use the one fabric for all of the curtain? If you think a border would be okay, would you put it on the top or bottom? and how wide should the border be (1/3 rule)?
My last question is about plants. I have tried to keep real plants alive and I just don't have the hang of it. I would like to add greenery to my house and don't know where to start. I don't have many shelf spaces to place small plants on, so I was thinking of getting some larger fake plants or trees. Do you have any guidelines for adding greenery? The first place I would like to add a large plant is in the corner by the curtains and the black chairs.
I just love your advice. Thanks in advance!
Wendy
Hi Wendy,
Fist of all- adding a border to your curtains is a fine idea. Should you go with the one third rule? That is a good question. When I have done a second fabric in a panel for clients, I have always kept it to around 12- 18 inches for my accent fabric. One third seems a little large to me for this kind of treatment. However- it is bold and not necessarily a mistake to go that way. Don't make the break in fabrics line up with other strong lines in the room- like the fireplace mantle- etc. Last week I received an ad from Ann Taylor Loft in the mail that discussed the "new proportions"- describing the one third rule as it applies to fashion. Funny how I consider it in interiors all day long- but never gave it a thought as I dress myself. I tell people not to cut their walls in half all the time and realize that I sometimes cut my own body in half. (I'm gong to stop doing that!)
On to your not- green thumb greenery. I suffer from the same lack of green thumb myself. My grandfather gave me a plant when he came over for Christmas dinner and it's still alive. That's downright shocking around here. (I didn't say healthy-- but still alive... ) I say it must be the type of plant. (Of course I have no idea what type it is) Which brings me to thought #1- get plants at a nursery where people that know a thing or two about what's most hardy- and can tell you how to care for them- to help you make your purchases. I used to buy plants at the swap meet down in Orange County when I lived down there. I literally did not speak the same language as the nice folks selling me the plants. No wonder I killed them all so quickly.
#2- Number two is for when you really give up- which- other than the plant my grandfather gave me- I have. I am just too busy at this point of my life to introduce one more living thing into this home that I am responsible for. Topiaries look fake when they are real- so I say- they look real when they are fake. Check out the nice topiary below. Is it real? Is it fake? Who knows? That's what we like about them!

#3- Cut flowers. Whether from your yard or your grocery store- I love simple cut flowers. If arranging them nicely when you bring them into your home is hard for you- go with all one flower (say- all Gerber daises, all sunflowers or all hydrangeas) rather than a bunch of mixed flowers- it is super easy- and just as pretty. Whenever I have anything blooming in my yard- I love to use those as well.
#4 Grass is a popular look in the past few years- and also a good looking fake. Of course if you do have a green thumb- this would also be great for juicing. ;-)

#5- Just go cut some branches off of your tree outside and bring them in. A fantastic look.

#6. Greenery doesn't have to be green- branches that are both not green and also not alive qualify as greenery in my book. Keep the dust off, and enjoy your brown branches.

Specificaly you mentioned that you wanted a large plant in the corner. My advice there- if you are getting a fake one- spend the most you can afford. The plants that are over $1000 are terrific, over $300 aceptable, and under $100... yeah- I am not going to go there- I will start offending my friends and neighbors again. Check out this post on greenery in the bathroom- and this post on green centerpieces.
Photos today from Pretty Stuff.