Today I am going to interject in purple.
Hi Christine,
First off I just want to mention that I love your blog and have learned a lot from it already. My husband and I are about to begin renovations on our house and would love your advice before we begin.
We want to replace the cabinet doors and counter top. My question for you is; do we refinish the oak and add new white doors, or do we paint them white white and add new white doors? I would paint- it is very hard to match a re-finished old wood with a new wood on the doors. I would also add detail to your flat surfaces as I discussed in this post. While you are renovating- I would take out the fan and add 9 can lights- what you have is not good lighting for a kitchen.
Consider counter selections in the picture above- these colors would look great with your new white cabinets. Also if we do paint them white, what do we do with the big oak beam by the eating area? Paint that white as well.
When you are painting wood- be sure that you do it correctly. You don't just go purchse a laytex paint and start brushing away. You start with lightly sanding- you then wash with TSP- and then use an oil based paint- or a special laytex paint that is made especially for this kind of thing. A good paint store will steer you in the right dirrection. Sometimes a second sanding, a second washing- and a second layer of paint will be what makes it look perfect. (That is what I did in my last home- I used oil based paint- which is tricky to use- but leaves the nicest finish in my opinion.) Replace your light in your eating area- here is a cool one from Shades of Light:
I like the fun Jacobean turns in your dining set. I would paint it :). Picture the wood in a soft khaki color- (the color of the stem portion of the floral pattern below) and re-upholster the seats in a print that brings out the new color and adds some blue- like this piece from Lee Jofa:
While I am spending your money- let's replace your floors- check out this cool cork flooring- I like how it adds color- but is still so very neutral: 

Tina, from Canada.
Well Tina, I can picture your place and it looks fantastic! Good luck with your renovation!